wtorek, 1 lipca 2025

Not everything can be understood. And not everything is worth holding on


I understood one thing: I no longer have the strength for emotionally unstable people, who bring confusion instead of peace.

Recently, I experienced another disappointment. A woman I met a few months ago was fascinated by me – by my psychological knowledge and our conversations. She wrote:

“You’re my soul sister.”
“Talking with you gives me confidence.”


She was very open. Shared intimate things. Cried. Told me about her husband, mother, daughter. And then – silence. When I called, she said coldly:

“I was sick.”

I asked myself: Did I do something wrong?
But now I know – not everything is about me.

Sometimes, when you give someone too much heart, they can't handle it.
Or maybe they’re not ready for a real connection that requires emotional maturity – not just admiration, but responsibility.

I closed that chapter with respect, and clarity.
I will no longer let anyone drain my energy – I need it to protect myself.

After all these years, I know:
I need stable people around me. No drama. No games.

Not every relationship is meant to last. But every one can teach us something.

Maybe you’ve experienced something similar? Someone disappears from your life without explanation? You may never get an answer – but peace of mind is the best answer there is.

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